Genuine
people are sought after both offline and online because of the way
they treat others. Someone who is genuine can have the loftiest of
titles or no title at all. A genuine person is someone who is truly
interested in others; someone who listens and hears what others have
to say. Genuine people are comfortable with themselves, can laugh at
themselves, are open, approachable and accepting of others. Genuine
people are the people you want to have relationships with and do
business with because you know them, you like them and you trust
them.
How
does being genuine translate to the online world of social media?
Quite easily because all a person needs to do is be true to who they
are.
1.
Be Natural. Keep your style as relaxed as if you were talking
with a good friend over a meal. Before you begin posting, write out
your thoughts and, if you sound too formal, stuffy or authoritative,
re-write it until it sounds like a “regular” conversation.
2.
Be Open and Approachable. In your posts/messages be open and
inclusive. Expand your circle; invite others to connect with you and
make sure you connect in return. Also, look for posts from new
friends and followers then comment on them.
3.
Be Helpful. If you can answer a question, do; if you can't,
don't post just to post. Give of yourself. Share resources, tips and
insights. Connect friends/business associates with others of like
minds.
4.
Be Appreciative. Make sure you show appreciation for what others
are doing, saying or have accomplished. Give credit where credit is
due. Give thanks to people who have helped you, recognized you or
done anything for you. Display your attitude of gratitude.
5.
Be Sincere; Be Honest; Be a Straight Shooter. If someone asks
your opinion, tell them the truth rather than what you think they
want to hear. Be sincere when you compliment someone rather than
“buttering them up” for some future benefit. Say what you mean;
mean what you say.
6.
Be Comfortable with Yourself/Make Others Feel Comfortable.
Again, be who you are. Don't pretend that you are something you are
not or that you have knowledge you do not. The world of social media
is very fast, very transparent and it is just a matter of time before
your “secret” is discovered anyway. If you mess up or make a
mistake, admit it; don't look to blame someone else. Be willing to
laugh at yourself. Welcome others into your circle and let them see
who you are—warts and all.
7.
Follow the Advice of Dr. Seuss. "Be who you are and say
what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who
matter don't mind."
Are
you having fun meeting new friends and connecting with old friends
via social media?
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